There’s a dirty little Secret in many American homes--couples fight about the housework. It’s No. 1 issue my husband and I argue about. We (1) ______. argue over who is doing more, who should be doing which chores, and why my standards are unrealistic. There is always too much to take care and, (2) ______. with two kids, either one of us has the energy to keep on lop of it all. (3) ______. When the laundry, dirty dishes, and dust pile out, I feel stressed and resentful (4) ______. and the fighting begins. Most couples are trying to split three fulltime jobs his, her, and managing the house between two people. There (5) ______. just aren’t enough hours in the day. The current arrangement is leading to a nation of tired, angry couples with no time to relax with each other and (6) ______. their children. It is estimated that the first child triggers an increase of 21 hours of chores per week, not included childrearing, while each additional (7) ______. child adds 6 hours of chores. The average American mother, whether she works out of the home or not, spends 35 hours a week doing housework. When you think about the time has spent on cleaning, cooking, grocery (8) ______. shopping, the yardwork, and laundry, it’s clear that managing a home is no small feat. So many of our parents got along without household help, (9) ______. the amount of hands-on parenting time at home has increased dramatic in (10) ______. the past 20 years. It’s no longer safe in most areas to let children play in the front yard or out in the neighborhood unsupervised.